It has indeed been months since I last wrote anything here. But I'm not going to completely abandon my account, there's too many cool people I would not like to lose contact with.
I will see if I can return soon, lately it's been one thing after another. Such is life!
But right now, I shall soon be getting married. Sounds like big news, I suppose!
It's a very simple, low-key civil wedding. Then after that, a small reception, and that is all. It's very silly to spend too much money on one day when the rest of the couples life together is more important. And I did not like the idea of falling into debt the day after the wedding. There are a lot of things I would have preffered, or chosen, or even wanted the most. BUT - money issues. If I could not pay for it without breaking my account, it's not worth doing so. The idea to spend hundreds to thousands of dollars all on one wedding day is too much, and I find it bit foolish. But those are my thoughts.
Since we, James and I, are paying for all of this ourselves, it's wiser for us to invest the majority of the money in an apartment as we do not expect things to be handed to us.
I could go on a whole rant about how warped peoples minds are over weddings! Not now, it's way early.